1 Corinthians 12
Many times we believe in the blessing, but people prevent you from receiving it.
We must go beyond the people

John 7:37-39
The Holy Spirit will be given only when Jesus is glorified.

Acts 2:38
Repent and be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sin and you shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost.
Everyone who receives the Holy Ghost will receive an increase in their spiritual life.

1 Corinthians 14
Speaking in tongues is primarily the gift of the Holy Ghost.
God will not force it on you.

Mark 14:24
Whatever you ask, you will receive when you pray and believe.